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Comments
from both sides
I've had a chance to meet, observe,
chit-chat and mingle with both the
industry side and the spectators in
the game. It's very fascinating to
share all that I've seen and heard.
There are never ending comments that
revolve around this industry, and
I think we should just brush the surface
and delve a bit deeper into some of
the comments from both sides:
Spectators
(the Johns, the patrons of the sex
world, the online consumers, the freaks,
the sex addicts):
John 1. "I think it's perfectly
normal to pay for sex. I'm all for
it."
John 2. "When I am lonely,
I call "Sara" - she is my favorite
girl. She will rub me the right way,
and her innocence just turns me on."
John 3. "I'm new to all of
this. This is my first time at a bachelor
party. It's normal for a young guy
to have his fun."
John 4. "When I was in high
school, I never had any girls that
liked me. I hate all of these girls
in the industry. They are all sluts
and whores. But that's why I like
'em. I just don't give a shit who
they are."
John 5. "I love to look at
naked women - men need variety and
this industry can provide just that."
John 6. "All my money goes
to this industry. I'm a compulsive
sex addict. I spend it on every girl
I see, subscribe to the websites and
watch porno all day long on the pay
per view channel."
That is just a taste of what's out
there. Now let's look at the other
side - the industry producers, lawyers,
models, hookers, investors, photographers,
etc.:
Lawyer. "In my opinion, sex, fantasy,
the whole industry is protected by
the First Amendment rights." "I support
it."
Hooker 1. "The money is great. We
can retire off this biz. I like the
sex."
Hooker 2. "I want to get out of this.
I just don't know how. I've been doing
this business for so long..."
Hooker 3. "It's all fantasy. It's
all an act. After I'm done working,
I just go home to my boyfriend who
doesn't have a clue."
Video Producer. "I love making films,
I never get bored. I'm working on
a new batch of volumes as we speak."
Photographer. "It's a shady business,
hard people, you need to watch your
back. Everyone is out for something."
So there you go. I hate to spoil some
of the fun, but I write and that's
part of my job. I probably get off
with writing just as much as anyone
that loves sex would get off their
own horny instinctual behaviors. But
my added two cents have been blogged.
The fantasy, illusion, the sexual
appeal can be whatever you make it
out to be. There are many sides to
the industry, but after all we do
need to keep in mind that it's not
real people, it's by far from a real
life.
When it's all over with, when you've
visited the strip clubs and had your
$50 lap dance in 'Vegas with the "Double
D" dancer with the five inch heels,
you have just been in the wonderful
realm of fantasy. I know most of us
already know this but it's very, very
easy to get carried away, caught up
in this whole illusion of sex, naked
women, money and the over-hyped media
of the sex biz. Just remember to stay
true to your roots. It's okay to have
a little fun here and there, it's
all right to look at the naked ladies
and have a hard on, but remember that
this is a very hard fantasy world
to live in.
Fantasy loves real people. It will
suck you right in and never try to
let you go. Real people love the allure,
the appeal of escaping to a "fantasy
island." but when you think about
it, it is full of tricks and it's
so easy for one to get disillusioned
in it all. I'd escape from it while
there is still time. The business
has made a lot of people filthy rich,
and people have found solitude with
escaping reality to fantasy. The business
has also caused a lot of broken relationships,
lawsuits and screwed up souls, lost
in limbo. Lost in limbo in fact for
years and years. It's saddening, it's
exciting, it's fantasy, it's real,
it's flashy, trashy, money, filthy
and so on. It's a whole gambling game.
Fantasy sex clicks with all the other
vices. Just be careful not to fall
too far into the trap. Hauntingly
so, you may never find yourself able
to get back out.
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