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Fantasy
sex. Do you support
it? I would.
Well, I would but I wouldn't. Some
"fantasy sex" things are just not
my own personal thing. If you are
curious to know, I am more of a "mainstream"
type of girl. But to each his or her
own. I support the sex industry, but
I'm not sure this is such an overall
healthy endeavor. Sure you can argue
this, justify that, support this,
put down that, but in the long run
it is all very complex, legal and
messed up from all those right wing
religious protesters that absolutely
do not condone any of these acts whatsoever.
It's a shame. They all are missing
out on a lot of fun. I couldn't imagine
a life with that type of repression.
Fantasy sex is not fantasy sex without
the people involved. And for what
ever reason, whether it be psychologically,
business, emotions, turning a new
leaf, filling a void, addiction, curiosity
or just plain boredom that lures these
folk into such an industry, they are
who they are and that's that. No one
is most likely to change them except
their own individual self. So in the
meantime, they all continue to fuel
this billion-dollar industry and do
their thing.
So let's focus in more on these people.
The trade workers in the industry.
The producers, the models, the actors,
the video companies, media and all
the rest of the club. We know why
they got there in the first place.
Read the previous last two sentences
again if you had already forgot. But
not to go into great detail, there
was obviously a screw loose somewhere
to find themselves in this line of
work. And I stand firm on my opinion
about that. Anyone in this industry
who would deny it is a complete liar!
Adult industry workers are an interesting
breed. They like money, they like
the sex, they like to act, they like
to be famous, they like the business.
You can dissect them in many different
ways. But the point is they all are
in the service business. In particular,
the models and the actors that work
in the biz intrigue me the most. You
see, some of them love what they do
and they are just highly sexual people,
open-minded, don't care what other
people think, live their life and
love it for what ever reason. On the
other hand, others are simply fake.
They act. They act because that's
their job and it's part of the fantasy.
"You want me to be the naughty schoolgirl,
you want me to spank you silly" "Sure,
I'll play that role for you baby"
"Bend over." Stuff like that. It's
fantasy.
Now take the "Bob", the "John", the
"Client" or whatever you would call
it in this biz. In reference to the
standard "Prostitute" and "John" example
idea, this is fantasy. The guy rings
a call girl, pays her for her time,
they both have a good time, put their
clothes back on and everyone leaves
happy. But my point to this is, why
would this make someone happy? It's
not happiness. It's a temporary illusion,
mental trickery of the mind. You're
just in a temporary high with what
just went on. After the hour goes
by, a happy hooker has left the building
to spend your good earned money on
some crack. And you're left alone
again with no real woman that loves
and cares for you like a real woman
should. It's just an example. But
my take on this whole "fantasy" concept
is that there is absolutely no substance
in any of this whatsoever. Whether
it be watching a porno, subscribing
to Mandysthumbs.org, calling the phone
sex lady in Nebraska, ordering a happy
hooker from the Watermelons agency
and so on. Sorry to kill this for
you guys and gals but I just don't
see the freakin' point.
In defense for the Johns and the people
in the industry, it is all quite logical
in some regards as well. After all,
we are mostly hard-working people
and people do need to earn a living.
There are lonely men out there, women
too, who just don't have the luck
of getting laid that easily, so they
devise other solutions to their problems.
Hence the fantasy life. Is it harmless
enough of an act? Sure, it doesn't
physically hurt anyone. Well, maybe
it can if your into that kinky "yell
at me and spank me silly till I bleed"
shit. But on the other hand, its a
mental mind fuck that can cost a whole
lot of emotional turmoil. You're playing
with fire to an extreme degree. Especially
all you married, cheating rats out
there with pretty, prissy wives and
girlfriends at home.
Women too! They are just as bad. Seductresses
and cold hearted girls who want their
cake and to eat it too. So the adult
industry contributes to this fiasco
because it is what it is. It's a vice.
It's like alcohol, drugs, etc. Too
much of it is not a good thing.
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